Don't diminish your value

People are so shit even the people that you consider family. They will constantly but dampers on your dreams even though they vocalise that you should aim big. God forbid you don't dream too high and it doesn't work out then you already a failure before any meaningful plan of action is put into place. Claustrophobic from the interrogation on what do with your life or what is the next direction and it all too much. Don't seek validation from other people. As long as you establish what your purpose is and what you stand for it doesn't matter what others think. Understand what you like and double down on it.

Maybe others shit on your ambitions because they envious of how open minded you seem but it isn't fair to rain on someones parade before they even begun. It's a possibility they weren't given the chance to take reigns of their own lives so this is what they know best. Keep them on their lane at their speed but that will only deter that person away even more. Hatred will grow more and more because at the end of the day when we all die who's life can you say you lived? It's the gratification we feel when we people please. The selfish act of putting somebody else's happiness before your own. It's even worse when you have to question if you deserve the same happiness. For all you do its not about giving to receive just a holy act of kindess.